2022.09.06
甘える母
先日テレビを見ていたら菅田将暉主演映画『百花』
菅田将暉の『母が記憶を失う度、僕は愛を取り戻す』って台詞。
良いよね。
私の母も認知症で、
最近は夜中に目が覚めると「おとーさんに甘えた～い！」
父も部屋に行って『なんだ、お前はそんなに俺に甘えたいのか？』
『そうなの甘えたいの』
認知症になる前は、お父さん（夫）のこと大好きなくせに、
思うほどこじらせていた時もあったのです。
映画ではどんな愛を取り戻したのか気になります。
もしかしたら当たり前にして貰っていたことができなくなって、気付
認知症の家族を看るのって大変だけど、
Hello, I'm Kuro-chan.
When I was watching TV the other day, there was a commercial for the movie "Hyakka" starring Masaki Suda.
"Every time my mother loses her memory, I regain my love" by Masaki Suda.
Good.
My mother also has dementia, and she's been talking to her father about how she's progressed a little bit more recently.
Recently, when I wake up in the middle of the night, it seems like I'm always making noise in my room saying, "I'm spoiled by my father!"
My father also went to the room and said, ``What, do you want to be spoiled by me so much? ’ when asked
It seems that my mother who hugs me tightly saying "I want to spoil you" is cute.
Before she had dementia, she loved her father (her husband),
She was always the type to complain and swear about anything, so I thought I might get a divorce.
There were times when I was making things worse than I thought.
But now, those superfluous things have been scraped off, and it's getting more and more cute.
I wonder what kind of love he regained in the movie.
Perhaps you realized that you were no longer able to do things that you had taken for granted,
Like my mother, it may be something that I can understand when I lose my unnecessary pride and become obedient.
It's hard to take care of a family member with dementia, but I think dementia isn't so bad when something like this happens.
Let's go see the movie "Hyakuka".
