hello! This is Kuro-chan, who is currently working as a care manager.
It's about work
Some of the home users who have been dating for a long time and become good friends
Sometimes I think, “I want to take over and take care of them!”
The user who entered the facility the other day was also one of my favorites.
Even after the contract with me ends after entering the facility, if there is anything to the guardian (Koukennin)
I told him that I would always support him and that I wanted to be by his side if something happened that threatened his life.
I have arranged for ZOOM meetings twice a month, and have asked him to contact me even late at night if something happens.
Since this user lost his real mother at the age of 15, he seems to have lived alone all the time,
I don't want them to think, "I'm alone again."
When I was showing off such a user, I suddenly remembered parting with someone I used to meet.
As a gentleman, he made a date plan, took me on a trip, and so on.
He is a very kind person and wants to do anything for him, so there was nothing I could do for him.
On a date, she asks me, "Where do you want to go?"
Isn't this better? is often rejected as
(laughs) Then don't listen! I thought, but it's certainly better that way,
There's no big commitment, it's easy and fun! I thought, so it was fun.
If I can't do anything, I don't really understand my value or the meaning of being together.
Yes, I like myself who is doing my best plainly.
That's why it's getting boring to be together, and even if we break up, I won't shed tears and I won't regret it.
I feel lonely because I have no one to contact
I was a little heartless, and I was a little depressed.
Regarding the users who were annoyed but didn't do anything,
When the facility was decided, I was so lonely that it was difficult to meet, and I was so sad that I woke up crying in my dreams.
I think it depends on how long you've been dating.
I realized that my affection grows not when someone does something to me, but when I feel strongly that I want to do something for that person.
When I told my friends about it, they scolded me, saying, "That's why you can't do it! You're a spoiled woman!" .
If you mix passion and work like this and work, you won't end up in a facility or a hospital.
You can watch over the elderly like a family member in your own home and even attend the end of your life.
I think it would be great if we could provide such care support.